Wisdom in Recognizing People’s Motives [Commercial Broker #156]
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Scripture
“The purposes of a person’s heart are deep waters, but one who has insight draws them out.” — Proverbs 20:5 (NIV)
Devotional
Every negotiation is influenced by motives—some spoken, some hidden. A seller may want a fast close because of personal stress. A tenant may resist term length because of internal instability. An investor may push hard because they’re under pressure from partners.
Wise brokers don’t assume motives—they discern them. You ask gentle, probing questions:
“What’s driving your urgency on this point?”
“Help me understand why this term is important to you.”
“What’s the biggest fear behind this concern?”
Drawing out motives is not manipulation; it is service. It helps you craft solutions that actually meet people where they are. It reduces conflict by revealing the real issues behind positions. And it honors God by treating people as hearts to understand, not obstacles to overcome.
Discernment is not supernatural guesswork—it is Spirit-led curiosity paired with love.
Reflection Questions
Have I been assuming motives instead of drawing them out through wise questions?
Which transaction needs deeper understanding rather than quicker pushing?
Prayer
Lord, help me see beneath the surface. Give me insight into people’s true concerns so I can serve and negotiate with understanding and compassion. Amen.
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